Night before last I did something obscene.
After cooking and eating dinner with the family, I proceeded with my normal nightly routine of put away leftovers, load dishwasher, wash dishes, pack sack lunches and prep coffee maker for the a.m.
And then at 7:45 in the evening, I left.
I left and went over to a girlfriend’s house and spent three hours drinking coffee while catching up with a good friend.
It was up to my husband to make sure the offspring took their showers, brushed their teeth and went to bed on time. And *GASP*, everything went off without a hitch.
Can you believe it??
The Earth did not stop spinning because mom took some time for herself.
The house did not burn down.
A party wasn’t thrown.
And pigs did not start to fly.
So here’s a question for you:
When was the last time you took a time-out?
When was the last time you had coffee with a friend without the interruptions of life storming in?
When was the last time you had a nap or a pedicure or simply read a book in peace?
Hey dads! When was the last time you hung out with a buddy?
Went fishing? Played Golf? Or just zoned out in front of the t.v. all by yourself?
If you can’t remember the last time, then now is the time.
Stop. Making. Excuses.
We are better people when when we take some time for ourselves.
We are better parents, spouses, partners and friends when we give ourselves a break.
I came home from coffee time relaxed and ready for bed. I came home with a smile on my face because we did a LOT of laughing.
I came home and everything was fine.
So here’s the deal: try in the next week to find time for a break. Even if it’s just an hour, try.
And then come back here and tell me about it.
Always end your day with laughter,
Olive Oyl Momma